And thank you Matic! I didn’t see your message until after I wrote mine!

Thanks for sharing your story, it was helpful. I think you were very articulate actually, and I do think you are right that if I don’t say anything to him, this will loom over me. Again I will sit tight about his sister because my thoughts are a little turbulent. I address her as his Sister but she is also my friend, and I have confided in many friends and found that it has really helped- perhaps this is why I’m in this dilemma. Her advice was always really good and honest in the past which is why I’m also drawn to telling her.