Along with everything you pointed out anita, my mom also puts me down about my weight. If I gain a little, she will say “you know what, if you want to gain weight and die then so be it. I tried to tell you, but you don’t care.” And “when I was your age, I wanted to be nice and slim. But yiu dint give a shit don’t you.” I’m not even overwheigt! I’m about 140 and I excersize daily and eat fruits and drink water! And she does this daily, even when I was a kid! She would by junk food, and when I didn’t want to eat home food, she’d out me down about how I’m gonna die and yet still buy me junk food. The same thing with my school work. I’m very good in school now, but when I was younger is struggled. She would let me play a lot of games and watch tv, and when I failed a test, she would say “I” wanted to fail and that it’s my fault. And now she’s doing the exact same thing to my brother. He cries, and it hurts me. Now she’s saying how she’s gonna beat my brother because he messed up on a test.