Dear Alexy:

I agree with you about letting the first gf go- no longer have any communication with her. Unlike you I don’t think her bf is pathetic for not wanting her to have contact with other guys on social media. I think after all, that you shouldn’t have contact with her on social media or otherwise.

Why you are thinking about her still is because, I figure, like you already figured, you have a need for adventure, something new, something unexpected, something unpredictable, some relationship where you don’t know what will happen next. It is probably why you traveled, isn’t it? Adventure? The unpredictable?

If you find what kind of adventure will capture your interest and satisfy somewhat you need, maybe it is the kind you can experience with the second girlfriend? Or not.

anita