Okay, maybe i am too young to comment on this. I do know one thing for sure – there is no magic, there is nothing like good as new as if never happened. It happened and its real but i am not doomed to live the rest of my fleeting life in fear and hopelessness. I am not defined as a person by a diagnosis or some analytical framework. I am not a victim. I cant change what happened but i can work on making every day more bearable and happier. Sometimes the hardest thing is to let go and move forward, despite the doubts, fear and pain that seem so deeply ingrained as if we never knew what we would be without them…