Dear Chris:

Yes, I am not likely to provide an answer to you but I will keep trying … because it is my nature. Here is a Buddhist like answer: you wait with peace and patience once you stop waiting, once you stop wanting her with you.

What? Crazy, isn’t it? Stop wanting her with you. Love her still, of course, do anything and everything that needs to be done to get her to live with you, but stop wanting it so much.

Hush that fire, that desire to have her with you. Stop wanting so much

(a line from the movie, Proof of Life, I believe it is, with Russel Crowe who frantically looks for his kidnapped wife, but his efforts being frantic do not bring results. Someone tells him in the movie: You want it too much).

Like I wrote, I keep trying and will keep trying until you stop me.

Here for you, write more any time. Good night for now.
anita