Dear Anne:

You can’t read his mind, You can’t tell what he is thinking. Would be nice if you could, maybe, at this time because then you would not be confused. (Or maybe you would be even more confused, depending on how confused he is in his own mind). The point is, we can’t read minds and even if we could for a moment, we may still be confused. One thing for sure is we can’t tell the future. Now if we expect to know the future, then we will be confused the whole time on this earth.

So you do your best to understand what is going on by OBSERVING, examining, EVALUATING, asking questions, open ended questions, and listening/ reading the answers if any.

The guy sending less texts to you and shorter texts is an observation part. The question is – what does it mean? does it mean he is not interested in you or that he is busy? Or something else? Can’t figure this out until you have more evidence to observe, more information o process. You can either wait and see if there will be even less texts from him and/ or shorter and then none, or you can ask him in a non-pressuring way, in a way that looks like you just want the information, honest information from him.

anita