Yep we can jump to a new thread.
Just a sentence or two here. Anita your last note about no one can realistically take responsibility for what another person feels – I’m going to read that as a half apology to snails as she couldnt reasonably or realistically be held responsible for how you felt over her words on a page. Good I’m glad we got there.
Jack, and Anita. I absolutely agree with your vote point that Anita does the most work and is the person who most reaches out and spends the most time helping others . Jack I’m going to be honest and say on one occasion.. or two .. you come across as her guard dog. I didn’t see it as helpful to the discussion back there to make a standpoint of taking sides because suddenly it became a side taking thing not a grown up discussion between two other people .
None of us are victims. Your love for each other is admirable and Anita the time abs love you spend on others is beautiful.
It’s wring to be yes men to each other. None if us are always right and we don’t learn wirh just yeses
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 