It takes two to make or break a relationship. I played a part too!
As much as I appreciated the honesty, it was only when asked, did his honesty surface.
Yes, it was hard on both sides.
At some point in our getting to know each other, he made the choice to not love.
He was happy when with me.
Caring for me though he was on the fence about me and yet did not see a future with me.
He was not 100% certain and to be 100% certain about a relationship is quite the Oxymoron.
He made a choice. I did not like this choice, nor his offer of friendship.
The hurt felt dissapointment was too much to simply set aside and I was the heart felt fighter that would not stand alone.
The courage and your choice to cut all ties is to hold value in yourself and allow time to heal,more so than to guilt or blame.
After some reflection, I probably was insensitive sometimes towards his needs. More communication may have helped and more efforts would’ve been applied. Afterall, we are not perfectly molded to each other.
It takes time to know someone and for a relationship to grow, love is a choice that is meant to be shared.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 