Dear voicewriter:

I re-read all your above posts this morning and here is my input:

You asked a couple of times: what is wrong with (you)? And there is something important in that question. There are unresolved issues you have from the past, maybe going all the way to your childhood, about love. Those unresolved issues have played a significant role in the ending of this relationship. Those issues had nothing to do with him and everything to do with you. Part of you, deep inside, knows it, and that is why you ask what is wrong with you.

This is an opportunity for self discovery that you didn’t start or didn’t complete-enough in the past. You wrote no one loved you the way he did… and him loving you so much and so well did not sit with you well, something about it was wrong and you had to end it, to lose your own feelings for him, to nit pick, to poke at him for trivial things, and to end it. Again and again.

His love for you, love with him didn’t sit well with you. Nothing to do with him. It was not the money or the sex. It was something else. What was it? What was the threat?

anita