You’re right Anita. I know he’s finding it difficult to. And I am sympathetic to his feelings. It’s just every few weeks he goes like this. Gets very angry and takes it out on me. It’s really starting to affect me. Often it’s not me he’s angry at but I’m the one he punishes. I don’t want that type of energy at home. I don’t want our daughter to see it. Or to feel like I do. My partner doesn’t seem to be able to handle strong emotions and I want to support him.. at the minute he has left and has gone back home. He’s hardly talking to me. Not answering my calls or messages. He’s even fought with his family since being there. I don’t want to accept this anymore. I would love to be able to talk about things in a less aggressive way and not to feel like this. He said some really hurtful things but like always I have to start talks. I can do it. I know it’s really meant to hurt me. But I have to care for myself to. And I don’t want to set this example to my daughter.. this is how my parents are and it feels too familiar. I will talk to him. But how can I respond to reduce this situation from happening so often..