Anita,
I understand now that you’re only looking out for me and what’s best. And trust me I have heard this many times before. I don’t know if she is willing to work on her healing but I know now that she is pretty sure about being with me and only me. She is going to give me an engagement ring on new years. And Trianglesun, you are right about me relying on her for my happiness most of the time anyway. But at the moment being for a while now I have not seen her so I have been finding my own way to be happy.I understand where both you and Anita are coming from and I will take your advice the best I can. I will do everything in my power to help her the best I can. I will be careful and if I am hurting I will do what I have to to stop it. I believe that’s what I want and feel as serious as the relationship is now, that I should move in with her so that’s what I am going to do. Thanks again you two.