Dear ameliau:

Throwing and breaking things, like your ex boyfriend did, is violence. Having a short temper, not controlling his anger enough to not hurt another, to not break things, should be a MAJOR concern for you, not only for your own safety but IF you have a child or children with him, YOU will be responsible for any way he may be violent with them! You don’t want him hurting your future child or to teach a future child how to NOT react to the emotion of anger. Be a responsible mother to your FUTURE children, if you intend to have any.

anita