Anita,
These are all good questions, that I feel sort of dumb not putting more thought into the possibility of us living together. We’ve discussed it in the past, but basically we didn’t live together because right now he lives at his parents house while he is taking care of them, while also saving his money. I’m living at a place that has very low rent which I need. If we moved in to a place together, we both would have to move in to a place together that we most likely wont be able to afford.
We both have some debt to pay off.

I’m only 25 and don’t see the point in getting married in general to be honest…at least anytime soon. I’m in no rush to be married.

But thank you, this leaves more options. I will need to talk to him again, as I still have a lot of time before I make a big decision.