Hi k8tyB,

I don’t know how old you two are, but I would definitely not get married yet. The reason being once you’re married, the rest of your life will be “Where are you? When are you coming home? What are you doing?” Not in a nit-picky way, but just so you can function in your life!

At first blush it sounds like he was doing something utterly dumb (playing World of War Craft for example) and he would rather not admit it to you! Yes, he could have been talking to someone else, but it’s just as likely that he was doing something else online OR he just wanted a few hours to unplug and chill out.

If that is his attitude, then he is too young or not ready to be married.

I would lay off him for a week or so. But if he does this again, that is his nature, and you should have The Talk. The “Let’s Get Married When you Are Grown” one.

Best,

Inky