Thankyou so much Anita for your response.My boyfriend has an 18 year old who lives 2 hours away and a 4 year old. The mum of the 4 year old is very volatile and has only recently allowed him to spend time with his daughter.
To be honest though,this is all out of my hands now. We mutually broke up after xmas but I have asked him to consider being together on a more casual basis for now. He hasn’t got back to me yet on his decision.
He has said his daughters come first and he feels tension between me and them.This isn’t good for us.
My favourite time is us together,just the two of us. My stress arises really quickly when we have to socialise,get together with family,friends etc…he has given up on me I can feel it.x