Hi Sunshine,

Do you know what HE looks like IRL? I mean what if he’s fat, bald and twice your age? There’s also such a thing as chemistry. No matter how attractive each person is, there’s either an instant “YES” or “ewg” factor that has nothing to do with it.

He might be better as an online friend, frankly as the picture in your mind/s will be different from IRL in any case.

Can you find out where he works and do a drive by sighting?

And yes, I have met people IRL (book authors) and was almost always disappointed. Who are their gifted editors?? LOL! It’s always different, meeting outside of the original “form”.

Good Luck,

Inky