You did the right thing. It doesn’t seem like it now, but in time you’ll come to realize that you made the right decision.

Let me get something straight here. Out of all the times that she mistreated you, when she didn’t return your calls, didn’t respond to your messages, didn’t spend time with you, and became cold and distant, that this was all due to her ex…that lives all the way on the other side of the country? Are you trying to say that not once during your relationship with her did she ever see her ex face to face?

I may be the only one that feels this way, but I find it hard to believe that she did this to you because of all the “heartfelt” and “meaningful” phone conversations and messages that she had been exchanging with her long distance ex. I’m not trying to stir the pot here, but did you ever think of the possibility that she may have been seeing someone else on the side besides you and besides communicating with her ex? It’s hard to believe that within the past 2 weeks that you two have been broken up, that she has not physically been with her ex. I may be wrong, she could’ve flown up to see him or vice versa. Perhaps that is the reason why she’s been on and off with contacting you – because she just wants someone around. It’s even harder to believe that she passed up on having a relationship with you: a person that is right in front of her, a person that is very special to her, only to go back to someone that she just ended a relationship with, that is not only NOT presently with her, but lives across the country.

Something to think about.

– Mel