Yes, that is exactly how I feel, Anita. I’ve had very unhappy moments, but now that everything is not so good, I tend to remember only the good things. To be honest, because of this issue with his ex girlfriend, I had to look for therapy because I had such a hard time to deal with that (and as you see, it was so bad that I didn’t get over neither with therapy). So you are right. I should see it as a chance to be free of these things that brought me so much distress… ANd focus on what matters now. It does feel like the end of the world indeed, but you showed me the bright side. It can be freedom.