anita–

I understand completely. For me it was–taking out the furnishings I “inherited” and trying to put in my own thoughts. My childhood had abuse, secrets, with way too much church. I was around very opinionated people and it seemed that my head was so full of their opinions I didn’t or couldn’t block out seeing thru THEIR eyes. I want my own thoughts (furnishings) and I find trying to keep the beautiful thoughts and purging the old or new that don’t fit (the improved version of my life) therapeutic.

What works for me certainly might bring up unpleasant thoughts for someone else. It has happen to me on other post. It was good for me to examine and go thru remembering that. It opened a door that I need to give some thought to.

thanks for your honesty
you are much appreciated for it and many other talents

Seaisland