Hi Hans,

Thought I’ll offer a male perspective to your dilemma. Based on what you described, it sounds like she is quite an insecure person with a constant need to compare herself to others. Rather than thinking whether you should feel guilty, the better question is do you want to spend time with someone who doesn’t trust you and brings you down when you want to achieve something? You can cease contact with all you female friends, let her go through your emails and put a GPS tracker on but the more you feed into this, the more problematic it is going to be. This is because she cannot fix her own insecurities by trying to control you.

Until she comes to this realization and do some work on herself, this is likely to contaminate all her future relationships. So yeah, don’t feel guilty about it.