Check on-line for activities you can do in your town that are free–like a nature club or or other meet up groups that have activities that you are interested in. This will help you to make friends with new people and to have fun at the same time. Also, there are on-line dating sites that are free that can be a good place to meet people to date. If you don’t try you won’t be able to succeed.

If she is not ready for something and you push it or keep bringing it up, eventually you will push her away. Sometimes women need space and they also need to be with someone that they see as confident, independent, and has interesting qualities to bring to the table. In your first message you said she told you she doesn’t want to date. Give it some time, a few months, and then you revisit the conversation if you’re still interested.