Online dating doesn’t work for me. I have tried several sites and different ways of writing up a profile and I still don’t get any responses when I message any woman. Apparently I’m not a salesperson when it comes to selling myself. I’m honest. I am who I am and what you see is what you get. I don’t lie, and I’m not going to do anything I’m uncomfortable doing. I don’t sleep around, I have my own place, my own vehicle, I work 3 jobs. I’m making ends meet for myself. From my own experience, women don’t want that. Or I should say, the ones that I have attempted to ask out don’t want that.

As for free things to do, well, I live in a very small town. The closest city is about 40 miles away in any direction. Other bigger small towns in the area are 25-30 miles away in any direction. The town I live in is about 3,000 people, mostly older people simply because after high school most kids either move closer to the city or they go off to college. Also, I’m 33, I’m too old in one group and too young for the other. The selection is very slim.

I think she is interested in me, she just won’t commit either because she doesn’t feel she deserves that or she just doesn’t want to. I think it’s because she feels she doesn’t deserve it because of her past. And that’s sad. She deserves a great guy, someone that accepts and respects her and wants to be with her for who she is, not what she has. And that goes for anyone.