Thank you guys for your advice!

In response to Inky,

Would keeping her mom’s gift for months until I’m actually in Madrid be sending a weird message?

I just remembered this and I told her I’m taking a Spanish class at university because she asked what my classes are and she told me to ask her for help with that if I need it. I then told her to ask me for help with applying to university and she said she will. (I obviously won’t ask her for help) and she probably won’t ask me. But do you think this offer is just her trying to be friendly or is it genuine? It’s probably just her trying to be nice I’m guessing.

In response to Anita,

You’re completely right about the pattern, thank you for that I don’t feel guilty anymore and she probably would have done it somewhere down the line had I not missed that flight. There would have had to be at least a year of the long distance longer between us.

I can show you guys the conversation we had so you can see it word by word if you think that’s better.

Thanks again!

• This reply was modified 8 years, 10 months ago by Kman.