i am only just seeing that you wrote back as soon as a sent a thought i should’ve put in before. i think that makes sense. i think that maybe i’m too impatient at the same time. the process seems to be taking too long, but then now that i think about it, i guess there could be things that i need to do to get to the next phase in life. i like to know that there are struggles that i have to go through because you learn from them. i try to remind myself that everything is written and there are no mistakes, but i also feel that there could always be things that we can change in what we’ve chosen before we were born. thank you by the way anita!