Dear vinni:

The pain will end soon enough… over time, it will. You let it be and it will pass on like the weather: the weather changes, clouds clear up, the fog dissipates, the sun comes out… and so is our emotional state, if we let it be… it changes.

I believe I understand your pain, it is that loss, the disappointment in promises not kept, of the weakness of her love for you, that it didn’t carry through the bad times. You loving her so much, this means you are a loving person. This is who you are, loving. It is a good thing, only it hurts when the woman you love stops loving you…

You are welcome, vinni, and please do continue to post, again and again, when you feel bad and when you feel better, and I will respond every time. And over time, you will see, it will get better.

anita