Anita,

You’re right about the post relationship loyalty. But personally I feel if you can’t get over your last person why even try with someone else? I feel like there’s no benefit in that. I would never do that because I realize it causes a great deal of pain. And if I loved someone no matter what I would never do them harm.

I think there’s a right way to go about things like that and I think she went the wrong way. Maybe I’m wrong but that’s just how I feel. Jealousy? Bitterness? Pain? Whatever it is, it’s a bad feeling. I really do feel betrayed though. That’s just me. 🙁

Andy