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Hi Karene,
Some thoughts came into my head which may or may not be true ~ so take them with a grain of salt. It is possible that:
1. He didn’t feel threatened by you when you met, but once you started taking care of yourself, he DID?
2. Some Hook Up Sites teach the guys the Build Them Up and Tear them Down philosophy. After tons of special attention, suddenly there’s none. This is used to keep the girl unbalanced and make HIM the one with the higher “mate value”. Also used by giving compliments with sudden put downs.
3. When he implied that you were average (because everyone at work is) he was practicing this kind of technique.
4. Same thing with the Angel Girl comment. That was so you don’t get any illusions/”illusions” that you’re special.
5. The FB Page concerns me. I have tons of Friends and NO ONE does the Friending 100 Blondes you don’t know and Photoshopping them with you in the photos.
I would ~ seriously ~ date other people. An added perk to this would be that he would be kept on his toes! 😉 … But I think it’s time to see someone who doesn’t play games.
Good Luck,
Inky
- This reply was modified 8 years, 9 months ago by Inky.