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Sorry but I disagree with posts above because you are obviously a real person Karene, so he can’t be fantasizing about you. The Interactions between you and him are real too – So the “fantasy psychosis” can be thrown out. Everybody fantasizes, whether it’s about marriage, having a family, a vacation, travel, goals etc. Walt Disney dreamt and fantasized about Disneyland before it ever even happened. Fantasy psychosis doesn’t exist unless you are telling people made up stories that never even happened. Everybody in this world dreams and fantasizes, it’s the way every day life is and nothing abnormal about it. I guess many should stop reading books that weren’t written upon actual events, as those books were written from fantasized psychosis. Now, none of here know him well enough to know who he is psychologically, nor are we professionals or certified to make psychological evaluations on him. The whole FB thing and him Photoshopping fake people, sounds extreme. I’d make sure he’s in fact doing that 100% before assuming or accusing him of such because that would be embarrassing for you, if it turns out those women are his friends and not photoshopped. Not sure how you want to go about that, as this is something I have never heard of before but I would get the facts before assuming. Either way at this point, my best advice to you is if you want to continue on going down this road with him in mind or not. It doesn’t sound good if you think all these strange things are happening on his social media, no trust, lack of communication or none at this point and everything else you have been feeling. If it turns out that everything works out and it was a mis-understanding then great! If it doesn’t, then you’re better off because you need a normal, stable, secure and healthy relationship where there is constant and open line of communication, so that you’re not left wondering and assuming.
You know what’s best for you Hun. Remember you are beautiful and you are special, always! 🙂
I will be gone starting tomorrow for work. So you will have all the support you need here.
Sending you lots of love, positivity and light your way.
M.