Hi Anita,

Good question, in truth I’ve always been a glass half full and have made sure that I’ve been there for family and friends. I have always had an air of confidence about me and at times have made things happen through sheer willpower. However underneath this was someone who wanted to occasionally be led and not always have to lead., hence with my partner I thought I could relax and let someone else take the strain a bit, equal partnership…problem is that she also had major relationship issues from the past and could be insecure. my problem was that we should have talked at a deeper level before buying the house rather than believing that things would work out rather confronting them, I believed she really wanted it too and never suspected that after 8 months she would go.

Jonny