Hello Anita and SumS,
Thank you for the logical advice.
I’ve already emailed her, over three years ago and the abusive behavior continues.
I don’t really care what she says or does in my regard, but exploiting the passing of my child was crossing a line. I deleted my entire acct. on that particular site so I will not see if she does it again.
She has no photos of him.
She does not know his middle name.
She does not know where he was attending college.
She is a narcissist, in every definition that I can find, everything must be about her and serve her in some way. She has blatantly been cruel to her own child for very basic things such as interrupting or singing a song, she does not allow attention onto her own little one. She is that selfish.
I don’t know what to do other than avoid her.
I fear that at the next obligatory family gathering I will not be able to hold my tongue.
I’ve planned my “exit strategy” in advance by simply planning to say I need to take a walk.
And then leave.
I don’t know what else to do other than rip her to shreds with my words and I don’t want to do that. I would hurt her. I would expose her for a liar, a trouble starter, and a pathetic person.
I don’t want to do that.