Well it’s been a tough but fun last year, we planned to move away together. She left early Jan and is living with family friends and I was supposed to meet her around now.

But the past two weeks she has been very distant, not really talking, no phones calls and barely messaging, I asked her what’s wrong and she said she is really enjoying being alone and she is just stressed with everything, and can’t afford to move out right now and has said to me I should stay here for abit longer until she is ready which was quite a shock.

She also has voiced that she thinks I won’t like it where she has moved and doesn’t think I’ve been productive for the move and that I rely on her too much, which is somewhat true, but for me this came out of no where, one day it was ok, the next just no communication.

I message her to see what’s going on and it doesn’t feel the same from her, she takes her time, doesn’t really call back.

So what are you thoughts? I said if she wants to be alone just tell me so I can move on, she just says I love you but just see how this works out. Just acting like a complete different person. Complains she has no money but goes out drinking etc

I don’t care what she does and I want her to be happy, but I don’t really exist in this occasion anymore, well that’s what it feels like

Is she genuine? Or letting me go gently?
So how would you take this, how would you go about it?

Thanks heaps.