well i guess i haven’t had a lot of input with the move, i guess in general i leave a lot of things up to her, putting a lot of pressure on her to sort things out. i leave things until the last minute. and i guess its hard with her already stressful life at the moment.i cant deal with negativity and go to her to vent when im upset..which isn’t lot.

as for money we are young and both independent, we dont share an account and im the one with money, thats one thing i dont go to her for.i have leant her money recently,which she hates. and i have said ill pay the rent and and bond until she gets off her feet but she declined saying she has it a lot easier where she is not having to spend money on living.

usually im her rock, we laugh,have fun she tells me everything. all of a sudden not so much.