No im 42 the woman was 47 i was in a 12 year relationship brought someones 4 kids up then had our own we spilt up but still get on i had a 2 week thing that finnshed ok then met antoher that was 5 months near and i think that one hit me the hardest but im still young i suppose and im too soft inside i have to be harder and stop punshing myself you cant undo stuff and have to stop living in the past and i do it all the time and its hard to focus and move on but it def aint healthy some days are good some are bad I just think im not hard enough in that sense and just to vunerable but i have a 10 year old boy whom im going abroad with i did spent that on the other woman but changed his to his name this is a big lesson and its one i have to never make again … i normally do weights at the gym which im going back to tommoro going to do a day at a time i cant controll socail media facebook so i tend to stay off it now