Dear Anita,

Yes, and that’s what I thought of her or led to believe, a woman with integrity, honest and committed person before I signed up for the relationship. Then she slowly shifted to something else, very subtle. And I didn’t notice or I did but chose to ignore because I was in….love. Sometimes I feel I brought this all upon myself. Maybe I don’t understand people ( women in particular) very well. And if I don’t, how would I know that next time I won’t be wrong again?