Hi Kakelina,

Ah, I wish I had a magic wand to make this easy, but it is in the shop.

Just be yourself. If it is indeed a match and there is a future with this man, then being authentic with him will set the tone for the relationship. If he runs, then is that someone that you want to be with anyway? Be honest with how you are feeling. Stay true to yourself and give yourself the time you need to heal and face your fear. If he is the right person then he will be there with you.

Jerry