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I agree completely with the advice given! The relationship you want needs to be organic, so worry about not having it is going to give off the wrong vibes and will probably stop any chemistry that might come along! I believe in just having faith as well, but don’t leave it at that. A relationship isn’t just going to come to your door and knock, you need to be out and about. Get active, get involved in activities and hobbies and meet new people. I’m not saying go out looking for dates, but just get more socially involved and you will be amazed how many more opportunities you have! We have such unrealistic expectations of relationships that we often forget that it is an active effort on our part. Sitting around and moping is a surefire way to make sure you don’t meet someone! So go out, live a little and most importantly, have fun. If you are truly just being yourself and are having a blast with other people, a guy is going to pick up on that energy and the chemistry will eventually click!