The more you read this same advice, I hope the more it sinks in. Don’t communicate with him anymore or you won’t be able to get over him. I am in a similar situation and have not had contact with my ex for almost two weeks after weekly communication for four months after our break-up. I can tell you that each day it gets easier. I am debating whether to respond or not the next time he contacts me (IF he does but I am committed not to contact him). I don’t want to be mean to him (he is a broken man — happened before me) but each time his name comes up on my phone it’s like ripping the scab off. Each day we don’t talk the wound heals a little bit …