very good and sound advice anita. yes, i would love to separate the business and personal but our office is small and everyone really spends time with each other outside of work. if i don’t try to fit in, i am criticized for being anti social and snobby. yes, i shouldn’t have said anything about hunting. but it was an off hand comment that i wish they would just stop the hunt. that’s all. i don’t think it warranted a humiliating and purposely attempt at trying to physically intimidate me though, esp. from a partner. that’s just bullying, no? who does that?

i respect your advice though.

thank you for commenting. i really appreciate it.