Dear Ravi:

It occurred to me early this morning, before getting on the computer, that I automatically believed what your parents told you yesterday, knowing your mother is the dominant parent, I imagine she told you that (or told your father to tell you): “my parents give me the fresh news that from next year, the said exam may be introducing some new rules which would make me ineligible to take it anymore. Means I have to clear it this time, or never.”

You wrote that yesterday and I automatically believed this is so, as you have, right? Because we believe our mothers… no matter who they are. So I thought earlier: she has a bad record in delivering true information to you as far as the scam college, an intellectual unreliability on her part, her own misunderstanding. And then there are her values: as long as you become a doctor, nothing else matters, not even if you beat your (future) wife. She is so focused on you becoming a doctor, all means justify the end, so it fits who she is to flat out lie to you about this exam being a one time thing so to pressure you to study.

Will you CHECK this “fact” she told you for truth or lack of truth?

Since it helps you to post here, please do. I will reply to you every single time you post. I like you and am on your side, wanting and wishing you nothing but the best life that can possibly be for you, now and in the future.

anita