Dear dreaming715:

I hesitated of course about the post I wrote to you a few moments ago, but wrote it anyway because the point I was making, I believe, is valid. My intent was not to judge you, to criticize you. Not at all. I suggested to you what I suggest to myself and it is helpful to me.

Maybe later, you can re-read that post and consider it and get back to me. If not, I will refrain from responding to you simply because I was not helpful here. My intent is not to add to your distress but to help. If I failed here, then I regret that I did.

anita