Dear Claudia:

Losing your virginity is a symbolic act of no merit. Nothing good can come of it. Please don’t do it, at least not for now.

Your lack of relationships with men is part of your overall relationship status, this is why I ask: how are your relationships with others? Friends (do you have friends? Are they all women?) What are your relationships with your parents like? Other family members? Are you close to anyone and what is the nature of that closeness?

anita