Dear sona:

I am sorry you have not been receiving competent therapy for such a long time. At this point, it seems to me, it is just another dysfunctional relationship where the man in your life has the position of being your therapist. He is not your therapist in practice, only in title.

It reminds me of a story about a female cousin of mine who joined a dating service only to date the owner of the dating company. She paid him to introduce her to compatible men while dating him. Nothing good came out of it for her.

anita