Good day,

Thanks Anita and Arilee,

Sharing this with you gave me other thoughts and introspection. My husband in a way was controlling and most of the time angry with me for useless stuff, I could not really be myself. When he discovered about this guy, he was shattered and never believed that I could do that. I had changed and no more the same person that I have always been. I was prepared to let us go seperate ways. When we saw the shrink he was prepared to do what I need him to be a support and not a controlling freak.

After getting the response from Anita yesterday. I decided that I will have to take control of my feelings and get the new guy out of my system because he is not coming to the party and has not reciprocated on the love I displayed to him. I felt very light after that. I am therefore very grateful.