Dear chris:

I appreciate you mentioning the names of the members who replied to you and writing something to each.

You wrote that you think you are boring and that in a date you went on you hardly said anything. As in the opening line you wrote about yourself, the line to which you don’t get hardly any responses. If you want, you can use this thread to break through this … silence, this having-nothing-to-say. You can “talk” right here, as an exercise aimed to open up this closed place in you; open up.

You can talk right here about a meaningful experience in your life- and emotional experience, one that is very painful or very happy, something that was intense for you, meaningful. If you choose to do this, we can take it from there, that is: I will reply and help you along best I can.

anita