Yes, I did tell him but he didn’t want to hear about it. I also advised him to move (because she’s from the city that he is living in and it’s a small city) but he refuses to move and change his life because of her. A week after he was with me she was waiting for him at his flat building and they had a heated discussion. Altogether he said that he will live through the year and then he’ll be rid of her. He doesn’t want to upset her because it might end up with him being locked away.
I know a lot about her and their relationship, how they met, how she cheated on him, what happened that night and what she’s been doing this whole time. About the court proceedings he told me in detail how it went: who was there and how it went down.
We live in Europe and here it’s very hard to prove otherwise: if a woman says it happened then it did.
As I’ve understood he is suffering in silence until the year passes. He might be still in love with her even though he said that he doesn’t have any feelings anymore.
This whole thing is just such a huge mess and I do feel that it had some affect on the “relationship” we had.
PS! I’m so happy I found this site and that you took time to answer. It feels so good to speak about it with someone neutral as my friends are all quite tired of me rambling about it to a point where I don´t even bring him up anymore.
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