Dear confusedone:

You asked what is wrong with you. Well what is wrong is you fell in love with the wrong man. You fell in love, meaning you grew emotionally attached to him. It is a good thing to become emotionally attached to a person who benefits your well being.

It is a problem when you get attached to someone who is harmful to your well being.

So you decided to end this bad-for-you-relationship- good choice. But because you are attached- you feel horrible. It is like deciding to give up on a drug, you know it’s the right thing, but it sure feels terrible to withdraw from it.

I hope you use this thread to help you with the withdrawal process, as well as any other support you can have in this process.

Endure the withdrawal- these bad feelings is what makes you think there is something wrong with you. But you are making the right decision.

anita