Dear Nan:

Welcome back from your vacation.

On your 1/27/16 thread, your first here, you wrote about you and R-1: “We have been communicating for 2 years now and have had a few meetings face to face. He is recently divorced in the past few months, and I am still married to second husband for 35 years. I dont want my current life. I want my first husband deeply and with my whole soul. We were so young, so lied to, and it was a big mistake.”

Almost 7 months later, you found out that R-1 is still, to this very day, your latest post, not divorced. The protagonists of the story you told January 2016 have been Nan and R-1. Since then, R-1’s character lost his charm and appeal. He is no longer the knight in shining armor. He is a man in his own trap, not having what it takes to free himself. Let alone take you with him into a happy ending of freedom.

See, the story changed. It is not the same. It is not about the two young lovers anymore, two young lovers separating by your evil mother, fighting for their love later in life.

What is the story about now? If R-2 is nice to you from now on, like he had been on the vacation, will that be okay with you? Then there will ne no need of separation?

The story changed and needs re-evaluating. Re-evaluating…?

anita