Dear Anita, thank you.

I’ve been trying to avoid conflict at all cost, so some of my friendships or relationships ended in a burst of my disappointment and a bigger argument…and ending the contacts. It can be avoided if I start to resolve problems instead of avoiding them.

About the other part; I’ve been trying to avoid loans or anything that takes away a bit of safety. Safety meaning you can leave anything anytime. Since job market here is really awful I feel like I have to stay at this job. It’s in my field, the salary is all right…but I can’t advance from that. I know I will find a way to something better in the future…but I hate this feeling of insecurity that comes from this loss of financial freedom.