Dear Shaun:

You read like a very reasonable, kind and loving man. Your honoring of the commitment you made is well, honorable, admirable, as long as you take care of yourself first and as long as you are aware and awake to reality.

You are in this for the long run, having a daughter with her. Take care of your daughter, protect her from anyone who mistreats her, or may mistreat her, including her mother. Coming to think about it, commitment #1 is to the children we bring into this world. Honor the trust in your daughter’s eyes when she looks up to you to take good care of her.

anita