Dear Tofu Stir Fry:

So as I understand it, you enjoy your job. You like it and wish to continue. You also like your living arrangement, alone, with your cat. And you don’t wish to move.

I don’t see a reason for you to move because:
* You are not living with people who are disrespectful or abusive to you (you live alone)
* Your rent is relatively inexpensive; wouldn’t be less, or significantly less elsewhere.
* You enjoy your job, where you are.

If you were able to magically get rid of your debts, would you be okay with the money you make?

I wonder if you have a … family member who can pay the debts for you, or greatly reduce it? That would be a heavenly gift, wouldn’t it? I also wonder if a personal bankruptcy law can apply to you- where much or all of your debt can be forgiven???

Hoping to get answers from you and continue this discussion.

anita